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Jury Duty Observations

Spent two days in a room at the courthouse waiting for anything at all to happen. Nothing did. I was not called for anything.

I sat for the entire time in what I dubbed “the outlet corner” which had two outlets easily accessible by four chairs, a little away from everything. I sat in that corner with three other laptop wielding would-be jurors. For the first four hours of our ordeal there was free wifi access in the jury room and I was happily clicking away. After lunch on the first day my anti-technology field caught up with me and internet access (and cell phone service for me, though not for everyone) was knocked out for the duration. I spent the rest of my jury duty cleaning up my AOL address book. Woo fun.

Here’s a little something I don’t think I’ve shared before: I hate the sound of my own voice. I hate the way I talk, hate the inflections, my accent, my pronunciations, the way I phrase things. I hate to hear myself on tape (and I feel the same way about appearing on video, where seeing my gestures and cartoonish eye rolls make me feel like crawling under a rock) and some part of my infamous reluctance to talk on the phone is related to this. I can’t wonder that people sometimes underestimate me or think that I’m dumb because when I hear myself even I think I sound like an idiot…. Yes, I do talk a lot for someone who hates the sound of her own voice but when I’m with my friends or, more likely, when my brain is spinning and drowning out the echos of what I’ve just said with new thoughts that area begging to be formed into something, I don’t have the same reaction. Usually.

Why am I bringing this up? Well, because I ended up spending two days sitting near some strange alternate universe doppleganger of me. In a hoodie and black Chuck Taylor hightops, toting a Hello Kitty bowling bag purse, she sounded like me when she talked. And she talked a lot, as she took several phone calls and chatted with people around her. She punctuated her speech with little ums, laughs, and so on exactly where I would. She talked to her daughter on the phone the way I would talk to Kate, and talked to her friend about her daughter’s trouble with the bus driver the way I would talk to my friends about Kate’s troubles. We actually probably had a lot in common but I didn’t want to strike up a conversation because I couldn’t stand to listen to her because it was like listening to myself. There was a point where I actually had to put in some earplugs because it was distracting me so badly.

A bonus of the lack of need for jurors was that we were released for two hour lunch breaks on both days. I took advantage of this and bought lunch at Salumi yesterday (only open 11am to 4pm, Tuesday to Friday). I bought a salami and cheese plate with olives and bread and washed it down with some Limonata. Mmm, that’s good stuff. I should call in an order of sliced meat for us (minus Rev. Dr. Evil) to enjoy during the upcoming Green Ronin summit. Today I rode the free downtown buses over to Lola where I had some butternut squash soup topped with a splash of curry oil (outstanding!) and a drop dead gorgeous shawarma heaped with goodness and too much for me to finish. I spent more on my two lunches than I’ll be compensated for my time (Seattle’s jury pool earns a whopping $10 a day for their trouble) but it was totally worth it.

Not being picked for a jury means that I’ve completed my service and I’m off the hook until the next time I’m called up. It also means that my plan to get away with my husband for our anniversary can proceed tomorrow without further interference. The trip has already been modified to accommodate Kate being with us (since her dad isn’t taking her for the weekend after all) and the weak and shitty United States dollar making the expensive hotels and restaurants all that much more expensive.

25 comments to Jury Duty Observations

  • I don’t like the sound of my own voice in recordings, either. I flinch a lot from the “I really sound like that?” factor. I have to make an effort to listen to myself speak on podcasts (including ours).

    I should call in an order of sliced meat for us (minus Rev. Dr. Evil) to enjoy during the upcoming Green Ronin summit.

    Sounds lovely. I don’t much care for sliced Rev. Dr. Evil anyhow, so no problem if we don’t get any. :)

    But a big yes to the olives! I don’t know why, but after not having a taste for olives most of my life, I suddenly developed one a few years ago and now I love ‘em.

  • I don’t like the sound of my own voice in recordings, either. I flinch a lot from the “I really sound like that?” factor. I have to make an effort to listen to myself speak on podcasts (including ours).

    I should call in an order of sliced meat for us (minus Rev. Dr. Evil) to enjoy during the upcoming Green Ronin summit.

    Sounds lovely. I don’t much care for sliced Rev. Dr. Evil anyhow, so no problem if we don’t get any. :)

    But a big yes to the olives! I don’t know why, but after not having a taste for olives most of my life, I suddenly developed one a few years ago and now I love ‘em.

  • I don’t like the sound of my own voice in recordings, either. I flinch a lot from the “I really sound like that?” factor. I have to make an effort to listen to myself speak on podcasts (including ours).

    I should call in an order of sliced meat for us (minus Rev. Dr. Evil) to enjoy during the upcoming Green Ronin summit.

    Sounds lovely. I don’t much care for sliced Rev. Dr. Evil anyhow, so no problem if we don’t get any. :)

    But a big yes to the olives! I don’t know why, but after not having a taste for olives most of my life, I suddenly developed one a few years ago and now I love ‘em.

  • I don’t like the sound of my own voice in recordings, either. I flinch a lot from the “I really sound like that?” factor. I have to make an effort to listen to myself speak on podcasts (including ours).

    I should call in an order of sliced meat for us (minus Rev. Dr. Evil) to enjoy during the upcoming Green Ronin summit.

    Sounds lovely. I don’t much care for sliced Rev. Dr. Evil anyhow, so no problem if we don’t get any. :)

    But a big yes to the olives! I don’t know why, but after not having a taste for olives most of my life, I suddenly developed one a few years ago and now I love ‘em.

  • I don’t like the sound of my own voice in recordings, either. I flinch a lot from the “I really sound like that?” factor. I have to make an effort to listen to myself speak on podcasts (including ours).

    I should call in an order of sliced meat for us (minus Rev. Dr. Evil) to enjoy during the upcoming Green Ronin summit.

    Sounds lovely. I don’t much care for sliced Rev. Dr. Evil anyhow, so no problem if we don’t get any. :)

    But a big yes to the olives! I don’t know why, but after not having a taste for olives most of my life, I suddenly developed one a few years ago and now I love ‘em.

  • Mmm. I haven’t had shawarma in ten years. As soon as I’m moved, I’ve got to find someplace near me that makes it.

  • Mmm. I haven’t had shawarma in ten years. As soon as I’m moved, I’ve got to find someplace near me that makes it.

  • Mmm. I haven’t had shawarma in ten years. As soon as I’m moved, I’ve got to find someplace near me that makes it.

  • Mmm. I haven’t had shawarma in ten years. As soon as I’m moved, I’ve got to find someplace near me that makes it.

  • Mmm. I haven’t had shawarma in ten years. As soon as I’m moved, I’ve got to find someplace near me that makes it.

  • sound of your own voice

    I am not sure I hate my voice. But, I am always surprised at how it sounds. I have been on the radio a lot recently (commenting on the sub-prime adjustable rate mortgage fiasco). It always is sort of jarring – it doesn’t sound like I hear myself (if that makes any sense).

    • Re: sound of your own voice

      It makes perfect sense. :) I think it has something to do with hearing your voice from inside your own head, as you’re physically making the sounds. Or something.

      When I was a kid and heard myself recorded, I couldn’t recognize it as myself. I recognize my own voice now, even though it doesn’t match what I hear in my own head. But that’s not the aspect of my voice that I hate really. It’s more the hearing my own voice is uncomfortable, like seeing myself in profile and thinking “Wow, do I really slouch like that? Is my nose really that big?” It’s beyond just the *sound* at this point.

      Maybe I should become a mime.

  • sound of your own voice

    I am not sure I hate my voice. But, I am always surprised at how it sounds. I have been on the radio a lot recently (commenting on the sub-prime adjustable rate mortgage fiasco). It always is sort of jarring – it doesn’t sound like I hear myself (if that makes any sense).

    • Re: sound of your own voice

      It makes perfect sense. :) I think it has something to do with hearing your voice from inside your own head, as you’re physically making the sounds. Or something.

      When I was a kid and heard myself recorded, I couldn’t recognize it as myself. I recognize my own voice now, even though it doesn’t match what I hear in my own head. But that’s not the aspect of my voice that I hate really. It’s more the hearing my own voice is uncomfortable, like seeing myself in profile and thinking “Wow, do I really slouch like that? Is my nose really that big?” It’s beyond just the *sound* at this point.

      Maybe I should become a mime.

    • Re: sound of your own voice

      It makes perfect sense. :) I think it has something to do with hearing your voice from inside your own head, as you’re physically making the sounds. Or something.

      When I was a kid and heard myself recorded, I couldn’t recognize it as myself. I recognize my own voice now, even though it doesn’t match what I hear in my own head. But that’s not the aspect of my voice that I hate really. It’s more the hearing my own voice is uncomfortable, like seeing myself in profile and thinking “Wow, do I really slouch like that? Is my nose really that big?” It’s beyond just the *sound* at this point.

      Maybe I should become a mime.

  • sound of your own voice

    I am not sure I hate my voice. But, I am always surprised at how it sounds. I have been on the radio a lot recently (commenting on the sub-prime adjustable rate mortgage fiasco). It always is sort of jarring – it doesn’t sound like I hear myself (if that makes any sense).

  • sound of your own voice

    I am not sure I hate my voice. But, I am always surprised at how it sounds. I have been on the radio a lot recently (commenting on the sub-prime adjustable rate mortgage fiasco). It always is sort of jarring – it doesn’t sound like I hear myself (if that makes any sense).

    • Re: sound of your own voice

      It makes perfect sense. :) I think it has something to do with hearing your voice from inside your own head, as you’re physically making the sounds. Or something.

      When I was a kid and heard myself recorded, I couldn’t recognize it as myself. I recognize my own voice now, even though it doesn’t match what I hear in my own head. But that’s not the aspect of my voice that I hate really. It’s more the hearing my own voice is uncomfortable, like seeing myself in profile and thinking “Wow, do I really slouch like that? Is my nose really that big?” It’s beyond just the *sound* at this point.

      Maybe I should become a mime.

  • sound of your own voice

    I am not sure I hate my voice. But, I am always surprised at how it sounds. I have been on the radio a lot recently (commenting on the sub-prime adjustable rate mortgage fiasco). It always is sort of jarring – it doesn’t sound like I hear myself (if that makes any sense).

  • Re: sound of your own voice

    It makes perfect sense. :) I think it has something to do with hearing your voice from inside your own head, as you’re physically making the sounds. Or something.

    When I was a kid and heard myself recorded, I couldn’t recognize it as myself. I recognize my own voice now, even though it doesn’t match what I hear in my own head. But that’s not the aspect of my voice that I hate really. It’s more the hearing my own voice is uncomfortable, like seeing myself in profile and thinking “Wow, do I really slouch like that? Is my nose really that big?” It’s beyond just the *sound* at this point.

    Maybe I should become a mime.

  • the jury waiting area in the new justice building are really nice- I was pleased to have a computer to play around on since I don’t have a laptop either.

    I don’t think you sound “weird” or anything but I understand NOT wanting to hear a recording of your voice or see yourself on video. I’m *just* coming to terms with pictures of myself… at 32 years of age. Meh.

  • the jury waiting area in the new justice building are really nice- I was pleased to have a computer to play around on since I don’t have a laptop either.

    I don’t think you sound “weird” or anything but I understand NOT wanting to hear a recording of your voice or see yourself on video. I’m *just* coming to terms with pictures of myself… at 32 years of age. Meh.

  • the jury waiting area in the new justice building are really nice- I was pleased to have a computer to play around on since I don’t have a laptop either.

    I don’t think you sound “weird” or anything but I understand NOT wanting to hear a recording of your voice or see yourself on video. I’m *just* coming to terms with pictures of myself… at 32 years of age. Meh.

  • the jury waiting area in the new justice building are really nice- I was pleased to have a computer to play around on since I don’t have a laptop either.

    I don’t think you sound “weird” or anything but I understand NOT wanting to hear a recording of your voice or see yourself on video. I’m *just* coming to terms with pictures of myself… at 32 years of age. Meh.

  • the jury waiting area in the new justice building are really nice- I was pleased to have a computer to play around on since I don’t have a laptop either.

    I don’t think you sound “weird” or anything but I understand NOT wanting to hear a recording of your voice or see yourself on video. I’m *just* coming to terms with pictures of myself… at 32 years of age. Meh.